A few days before
Thanksgiving, our brother-in-law had a stroke.
Then the week before Christmas my Mom had two small strokes and was
taken by ambulance to the hospital.
These past few weeks have been full of hospital visits in Kingwood and
Pasadena. Both J.R. and Mom have longed
to go home where things are familiar and they feel safe and content. Before that can happen, more progress needs
to occur.
Both have been moved to
rehab facilities where they are being worked with to gain strength and be able
to do tasks that were once part of their everyday life before. As much as they long to be home, there is
still work to do and goals to be accomplished before that can happen.
Observations and
thoughts:
* It pulls at your heartstrings
to see loved ones having a tough time physically and emotionally.
* Sometimes you have to
be in places that aren’t your first choice because that is where people who
have been trained and are able to offer the proper care can help.
* It takes hard work to
make progress.
* Tasks that were once
easy and familiar can be difficult and must be relearned.
* Having advocates makes
a difference, especially when help is needed.
* I had just mentioned
to Larry, at one of the rehab places, that people might think I was one of the
patients when a man in a wheelchair complimented me and cheered me on as I
strolled down the hall using my walker. It
was a gentle reminder that I am blessed that MS is just an inconvenience at
times.
* At times like these, it’s
a huge blessing to have family and friends to share the journey.
* There are moments when
you forego doing good things so you can be part of what’s best for someone
else.
* Since we aren’t with
Mom or J.R. 24 hours a day, there is much comfort and gratitude in knowing that
God is with them every second, minute, and hour of the day.
* Prayer needs to be my
priority and not my last resort.
Sometimes we, too, are
discontent because we’re not in our eternal home yet. And while we are still here, there is work to
be accomplished and things to learn and share to help further God’s Kingdom
here on earth. May we be willing to
persevere, keep our eyes on Jesus, and help others along the way.
…And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.
Matthew 28:20b
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and
courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you
wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9
Therefore, since we have been justified
through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have
gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God.
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we
know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance,
character; and character, hope. And hope does not put
us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the
Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
Romans 5:1-5
My
Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that
I am going there to prepare a place for you
John 14:2
Peace
I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives.
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27
Such a beautiful, encouraging post that rings true to me.
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