Saturday, May 16, 2020

A New Normal


“This shall pass.  Life as we knew it won’t be the same, but with faith I am not overwhelmed, dismayed or worried.”  It’s time to 
“Refocus, reconnect, realign and rejoice!”
~ Carl Hackney


“In the rush to return to normal, use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to.”
~ Dave Hollis

During these days of quarantine, we have been given the time to be still, to clean and organize, to look at and evaluate our priorities, to find new ways to invest in others and express appreciation to people we too often overlook or take for granted.  Families are spending time together going on walks, riding bikes, eating together, and talking.  People are taking time to visit with their neighbors and check on people by phone, zoom, computer, or other creative methods. 

The following poem and quotes offer much to consider as we look at what we will keep, what we will get rid of, and what we will change in the coming days and years:

“The Great Realisation”
By British artist and poet “Probably Tomfoolery”

A young boy begged his father to once again, “Tell me the story about the virus” for his bedtime story.  After reading observations of what the world was like before the COVID-19 virus, the story continued…

…But then, in 2020, a new virus came our way.
The government reacted and told us all to hide away.
But while we all were hidden, amidst the fear
and all the while, the people dusted off their instincts.
They remembered how to smile.
They started clapping to say thank you.
And calling up their mums.
And while the car keys gathered dust
they would look forward to their runs.
And with the skies less full of voyagers,
the earth began to breathe.
And the beaches bore new wildlife
that scuttled off into the seas.
Some people started dancing, some were singing,
some were baking.
We’d grown so used to bad news
but some good news was in the making.
And so when we found the cure, and were allowed to go outside,
we all preferred the world we found to the one we’d left behind.
Old habits became extinct and they made way for the new.
And every simple act of kindness was now given its due.

Son:  But why did it take a virus
to bring the people back together?

Well, sometimes you've got to get sick, my boy,
before you start feeling better.
Now lie down and dream of tomorrow,
and all the things that we can do.
If you dream hard enough, who knows,
maybe some of them will come true.
We now call it “The Great Realisation”
and yes, since then there have been many.
But that’s the story of how it started,
And why hindsight’s 2020.

Chis Carrier recently received a surprise FaceTime call from his granddaughter, who was playing with her mother’s iPhone.  After a delightful visit, he concluded…
“Herein is God’s grace…
Be careful not to let your kids find your iPhones, b/c you never know who they might call or FaceTime.
Be sure to let your kids see and find your faith, b/c there’s no greater blessing than when our Father and our kids find one another.”

Alex Trebek, the host of “Jeopardy,” and his wife were recently interviewed by Survivor.  Trebek has been fighting stage 4 pancreatic cancer for over a year.  He said he looks at these days as a “grand retreat.”  “As we take a much-needed break from all the business, agendas, routines, politics, we enter a time to learn new things, discover old hobbies … reorganize your house, and touch base with family and friends that you haven’t talked with in a while.”

Jean Trebek, Alex’s wife, responded, “Rather than concentrating on the things that are beyond our control, I feel that we’re each being asked to take a good look at ourselves and the lives we’ve been living, and perhaps use this time to give our inner world some vital attention.” 

“We will not go back to normal.  Normal never was.  Our pre-corona existence was not normal other than we normalized greed, inequity, exhaustion, depletion, extraction, disconnection, confusion, rage, hoarding, hate and lack.  We should not long to return, my friends.  We are being given the opportunity to stitch a new garment.  One that fits all of humanity and nature.”
~ Brene Brown

As our country, state, and city slowly begin to open up again, may we remember the lessons of these days.  May we choose to implement the ones worth making part of our lives, be willing to let go of what entangles, and desire to embrace a new kind of normal.  It’s time to refocus, reconnect, realign and rejoice!

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.
Ezekiel 36:26

But now, by dying to what once bound us, we have been released from the law so that we serve in the new way of the Spirit, and not in the old way of the written code.
Romans 7:6

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
2 Corinthians 5:17

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him her endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:1-2

Saturday, May 9, 2020

Expressions of Thoughtfulness/Gratitude


Recently, Bruce Hayes was chosen as the “Cinco Ranch High School 2020 Teacher of the Year.”  Along with English III and Girls’ Soccer, Bruce also teaches the “PALS,” Peer Assisted Leadership class.  Last week, in order to help celebrate and show their gratitude and appreciation, members of the PALS class surprised Coach Hayes with a drive by parade with honking horns, signs, and banners.  They even provided a take-out dinner for he and his wife.
 
At the end of April, a couple had their first child.  They went to the retirement home where the 89-year-old great-grandfather lived and stood outside his window so he could see his great-granddaughter.

A granddaughter and her fiancĂ© reenacted their proposal outside of her grandmother’s window, at the care home where she lives, so she would be one of the first to know of their engagement.

Richardson ISD school district officials and teachers celebrated the Valedictorian and Salutatorian at each of their four high schools with a surprise drive-by parade, with signs, banners, and decorated cars.  The district personnel stood at a safe distance on the front lawn and cheered and waved signs as the student came out to see their surprise.  The seniors were presented with a yard sign and a basket of goodies, along with the congratulations.

Wylie, Texas, is a town northeast of Dallas.  Because of the COVID-19 pandemic, the seniors will not be able to participate in the traditional activities like prom, end-of-year activities or the graduation ceremony.  Since the seniors could not come back to the school, Principal Virdie Montgomery wanted to give the seniors something to remember from their senior year.  A few things had been done for the seniors, but he still didn’t feel like it was enough.  So Principal Montgomery and his wife, Pam, went to visit each of the 612 seniors at their home.  It took around 80 hours, driving 800 miles over 12 days, to complete the visits.  When interviewed by CNN, Montgomery stated, “The most valuable gift any of us can give anyone that isn’t replaceable is time.  Where one spends one’s time says a lot about what they value.”  A senior said, “It kind of shows people that somebody does care for you out there.  Most principals wouldn’t do that.”

Some schools in Katy ISD and Spring Branch ISD have surprised their teachers by placing signs in their yards that state: “SUPER HERO WORKS HERE!  We Appreciate Our Teachers!”

Maude Burke is a few months away from her 100th birthday.  She was a COVID-19 patient.  Her determination and strength endeared her to the medical staff.  After recovering from the virus, the doctors, nurses, and staff lined the hallways to cheer for her as she was released to go home.  Her attitude was an inspiration to all.

On Saturday mornings, during this time of quarantine, the Stidham family is surprising neighbors on their street with a front porch delivery of a homemade breakfast of fresh berries, pancakes, and an encouraging note. 

Along with her own school work and helping two daughters with their online classes, Hollie Sailors of Houston, Texas, is making masks for people in the community.  Others are bringing by extra material to help in the process.  She took masks, stored in baggies, with her when she went to shop at H-E-B.  Hollie distributed the cloth masks to the workers who were wearing disposable ones.  There was much excitement and appreciation expressed among the recipients.

On May 6, 2020, the Blue Angels performed a flyover of several of the hospitals in the Houston area as a salute to the COVID-19 responders and essential workers.  There was great appreciation expressed by the medical workers, as well as others who saw the flyover. 

Rebecca Drew and her husband, Ken, recently moved to Seattle, Washington, a long way from family and friends in Texas.  To help through these pandemic days, Rebecca goes on a daily “Beauty Hunt” and posts pictures of the amazing flowers, trees, scenery, houses, places, and people in her new city.  God has blessed Rebecca with an amazing eye for photography.  Not only are the daily hunts bringing joy and comfort to her, but to the those she shares with as well.

Judy Wells teaches high school English at Memorial High School in Pasadena, Texas.  In May she will complete her 40th year of teaching.  In honor of “Teacher Appreciation Day,” a student surprised Mrs. Wells with a yard display with big “Thank you, Mrs. Wells” signs, along with other school memorabilia, in her front yard thanking her for being a great teacher.  Judy responded, “Yes, I’ve been thanked thousands of times in a variety of ways but never with such a surprise!”

Although we are over two months into this pandemic, it is encouraging to hear about and see different ways that people are continuing to express thoughtfulness and gratitude.   This week, may we, too, be part of that story.

give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
1 Thessalonians 5:18

Praise the Lord. Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.
Psalm 106:1

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
Hebrews 4:16

Saturday, May 2, 2020

Finding Treasured Blessings


Usually, the stories I post are ones that I have read or viewed on television or the computer.  But this week, I personally know the three young ladies, along with generations of their families, because I watched them grow up at Tallowood Baptist Church.

Valerie and Jon Millard have been married almost 12 years.  They have twins, a daughter and son, who are now in Kindergarten.  Jon is in the military and has once again been deployed.  With Valerie’s family in Texas and Jon’s in Ohio, they count on people in the church and military to be their “Family” away from home.  Added to missing Jon, Valerie and the kids are also dealing with the isolation from COVID-19.  Valerie is intentional about teaching and providing treasured moments for their children.  She recently posted, “I love them.  May they look back on this weird time with fun memories and not fear.  May they remember the million miles we scooted around our little neighborhood – the fun things their teacher did on ‘computer school’ – and the quality time they got with me.  I pray these long days are not wasted.  They are long – challenging – we are missing Jon something fierce.  But we are together. As for me, I will always remember that.”

Brooke Wallace and Russell Boremann were set to marry on April 4, 2020.  As the date came closer and closer, unexpected decisions needed to be made.  The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention declared that due to the Corona Virus, events were to be limited to 250 guests.  With 270 guests invited, there would need to be adjustments.  “We started praying about it and met with the pastor who was going to marry us,” Wallace said.  “I teetered back and forth between wanting to just be married and wanting to have that special day.”  The couple was able to reschedule the wedding venue and vendors, but then decided they wanted to go ahead with the original wedding date.  Before the date, the CDC changed to no more than 50 people could congregate.  With permission from City Council, the wedding could take place outside the church on their chosen date or inside if it was inclement weather.
Treasured blessings, according to Brooke:
* There was a torrential downpour so they were able to have their wedding in the church.
* Their wedding party was able to watch on Zoom.
* The reception was held at the bride’s parents’ home.  Each family had their own table, in order to comply with social distancing.
* Although Brooke wore her wedding dress at the church, she didn’t want to wear it at home because of the big skirt.  “My grandmother said that she still had her wedding dress, so that’s what I ended up wearing.  It’s 56 years old, and she got to see me in it.  That never would’ve happened at my original wedding.” 
* “It was better than the 270-person wedding because this was intimate and so sweet.”

April 25, 2020, was to have been graduation day, from Indiana Wesleyan University, for Ashley Johns.  Due to the closing of schools, Ashley missed her last chorale banquet.  She also did not get to sing her final concert, move out of the lodge with her family’s help, or say her final goodbyes.  There were so many things Ashley had planned for and dreamed of for those final college days.  But then Ashley’s laments turned to treasured moments that she did have her final semester.
* Games with friends in their 1st home
* Antiquing with friends
* Hiking with her favorite people
* Discovering a small zoo
* Watching a friend marvel at a store full of old books
* Listening to her favorite piano piece played by her favorite piano player
* Throwing a hilarious fake graduation
And Ashley’s treasured moments did not stop there.  Once home, she “got to”…
* See the magnolia trees bloom for the first time in four years
* Notice how much the little boy she babysat is growing
* Go on adventures with her brother
* Watch TV with her family
* Work puzzles with her grandparents after dropping off groceries
* Celebrate her Dad’s birthday with him for the first time in four years
In her post, Ashley concluded, “I still grieve the should haves.  I still wish I had gotten to do all those things and more.  That things had gone the way I planned.  But I also wonder how many of those got to’s I would have missed or never would have happened at all.  And they don’t make the grief go away.  But the memories made in the got to’s make the grief of the should haves tolerable.  I go back and I look at pictures and I know that those moments would not have happened if everything had gone according to my plan.  And I realize that those moments were always God’s plan.  And despite all that I lost in the should haves I am immensely grateful for the got to’s.”

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.
Philippians 4:8