Saturday, September 8, 2018

Going the Second Mile


Norah’s mom, Tara, noticed that her daughter, age 3, looks out for the elderly.  When an older person is crossing the parking lot, Norah reminds her mother to go slow.  Along with other children, this precious child is also known to be quite honest in situations.  Recently, Norah asked her mom to stop at the store to buy cupcakes to share with her six siblings for her 4th birthday celebration.  As they were going down an aisle in the store, Norah called out, “Hi old person!  It’s my birfday today!”  Tara began apologizing to the man, but then realized that his face was softening and he was talking with Norah about her birthday.  As they went down another aisle, Norah kept asking her mom to take a picture with her friend.  When they encountered Dan again, Tara explained Norah’s request and he smiled and said that would be fine.  Norah “placed her soft hand on top of his hand.  He wordlessly stared at her with twinkling eyes as she kept his hand in hers and studied his skinny veins and weathered knuckles.  She kissed the top of his hand and then placed it on her cheek.”  As Tara thanked Dan, he explained that this was his best day in a long time.  When they arrived home Tara posted a picture and recounted what had happened at the store.  A lady responded with a private message and explained that Dan’s wife, Mary, had recently died and that he had been terribly lonely.  Tara found Dan’s telephone number, called to speak to him and planned a visit for a few days later.  When Norah and her mother arrived, Tara noticed that Dan looked younger.  He had shaved, had a haircut, and was smiling and ready to greet his guest.  Dan had crayons and paper for Norah.  They spent 3 hours coloring and visiting.  As they were leaving, Mr. Dan cut a rose in his garden, took off the thorns, and handed it to Norah.  Tara and Norah continue to visit Mr. Dan and he now joins their family for holiday celebrations, all because a little girl spoke to an “Old person” and her mother went the second mile to reach out and continue the relationship.

When Autumn Michels was 7 months old, an inoperable brain tumor was detected near her optic nerves.  As she grew older, so did the tumor.  In order to slow the growth, three surgeries were performed to remove a portion of the tumor.  Autumn’s optic nerves were sacrificed in the process, leaving her totally blind at the age of 4.  When she was in the sixth grade at Laingsburg Middle School, Autumn signed up to be in the band.  She chose the clarinet and learned to play the music by ear.  Autumn also worked at reading Braille sheet music.  As a freshman, Autumn desired to be in the 114-member band at Laingsburg High School in Michigan.  One of her dreams was to be able to march at halftime.  Band Director Thomas Cousineau was aware of her wish and researched the best way to make that dream a reality.  Usually Autumn uses a cane to navigate the halls at school, but with the close proximity to the other marchers a different technique would be needed.  At band camp that summer, Cousineau asked senior Rachael Steffens to fill in and to stand behind Autumn and guide her through each of the positions as the band members marched.  When the director had trouble finding someone else to help, once school started, Rachael decided that she wanted to be the one to help Autumn so she could march with the band.  When the band plays in the stands, Rachael is seen playing the drums, but when it’s time to march she is the eyes and steady hands so Autumn’s dream of marching is a reality.

The willingness to go the second mile can make the biggest and most lasting impact.  Ready.  Set.  Go!

“No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.”
1 John 4:12

If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles.
Matthew 5:41

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